I think the universe is throwing me all its got to teach me a lesson.
Lesson being... don't bend over backwards for people... there is never a need to do that. We are all adults... can take care of ourselves and can be responsible. I wouldn't ask anyone to bend over backwards for me... and if they did.. I surely would be greatful, respectful and find a way to thank them that they would appreciate.
I have had the double whammy of helping out my ex-roommate.. to where he wanted even more.. and criticized the help he did get.
And the neighbor who I am helping only because of the foibles my exroommate created.. and now he is whining.
I want my life back. He is a bull in a china cabinet. My life happens to be the china cabinet right now. He spends all his money on cigarettes and having a "good time" ... hasn't started looking for another place to live... doesn't even have money for food etc.. oy oy oy. Helping that kind of person isnt' helping him. Just prolongs his behavior which will probably never change. He is the grasshopper in aesop's fable. :-s... ok.. I need to work.
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