chubby man

I had a dream last night (during an accidental nap) that I was dating this larger fella that I met in a Kolsch bar a few weeks back. I don't mean to be mean in his description, but just so you get a feel.. he was round, bald, and he was the kind of heavy where the back of the head melds into the back (as in gains wait in the neck area where there is usually a scoop of space).  I'm not putting him down.... just describing. He was actually very friendly and charming from what I could tell. He was in the dream too. We had just begun dating (as in .. familiar enough to expect another date would be on the horizon). His appearance didn't bother me at all, I just knew I liked him and wanted to spend time with him. It was nice.. We were sitting in a livingroom by a fire and talking and he had made plans for a weekend of "mine."  This is where my feelings started to change. I felt like I was being controlled because I had already had plans for that weekend and he didn't ask. My plans were to do absolutely nothing, but they were still my plans.... I wasn't hugely upset with him, but I took it as a clue of things to come...