hot tub and giant

I dreamt I was at a friend's house. Not sure of the friend or the house. It was strange and messy. I felt a bit in the way and like I should be doing something. They had a hot tub in the nook off of the kitchen and a friend of mine was in there. There was a folding table in the room, bags of things, stuff on the floor, stacks of things on the counter... the place was very cluttered. It made me feel like I couldn't concentrate or rest. I was supposed to get into the hot tub, but I couldn't find my suit. I realized there were some bottoms I could wear. I found them and was starting to put them on. Then my friend got out and was going to go to bed for the evening. Just myself and one other person was downstairs. All of a sudden a giant man came in the back door. He was really tall and large. He looked like a cross between this blond guy I know and Macy Gray. He went from being a large black man, to a blond to a man with Macy's face and a bob like afro. I noticed his nose was very very small. I was thinking that he would make a pretty woman maybe... or that if he married someone with a large nose, it would be nice, because the children might take after him. He was looking for my friend and I could tell he wasn't going to be nice to her. I said I was unaware of where she was or how to get in touch with her. He sat on the floor, legs stretched out and he seemed to be tired. I was scared of him but at the same time he felt harmless. More bark than bite.