stop thinking

I dreamt that I was dreaming... and in my dream I consciously quit thinking about solving a problem, and also remembered not thinking about solving a problem, and when I did that, answers would come, and then I woke up and remembered that yes, to quit thinking of solutions... because it took me away from the answers. So the idea was let it go and the answers will come....

Then I dreamt that my ex BW, said I looked haggy... like a hag.  He wasn't being horrible... and I didn't take it horrible, but I didn't want to be there either.