uninvited guest

I dreamt that I went to see RVB. I was in the UK and was popping over to surprise him. He was staying with his folks. They seemed very sweet and happy to have a guest, someone new to talk to. They provided me with where everything was, how to use the house and so on. He seemed somewhat happy to seem, but also somewhat distanced. He had talked about wanting to see me, but when I was there, he showed me his room... more to tell me where he would be, as he had an office in there. He then walked me back out to a side room off the front room. There was a small sofa there and he said if I wanted I could sleep there. He wouldn't have much time for me... he had work to do, some colleagues to meet, and the kids...  That I should get myself something to eat if I liked. That he hoped I would enjoy my stay. All was with a friendly outside, friendly words, but controlled on the inside, and cool.