which reality

I dreamt that I ran into a friend in passing in the airport. She was excited because business was going well. She had also just received a special flower out of luck, although she knew that she was in a good groove and that had to be the reason why. She was happy but one thing was bothering her. There was someone she had been trying to make a connection with, and it should have been so easy. She was going over all of the times that were missed and how odd it was. Then I said something like..."you've painted yourself into a corner. You keep on focussing what isn't happening instead of what is. So simple... stop."